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Post-Thanksgiving Reflections on Coming Together & Goodness
Family is their most important core value. My (& Be Strong Families’) mantra is “Connecting. Conversing. Transforming.” I am committed to creating A More Perfect Union by bringing people together in Cafés to have safe conversations to bridge differences. To find common ground through common values. To building community and peace. Yet I couldn’t even converse with, much less transform, my own extended family. I could only relate well to my political allies in the family and commiserate and bond with them over the inconceivability and embarrassment of having relatives in “that camp” — who won’t be educated or argued out of it. I felt like a fraud.

Dream Our Preferred Future
On November 13, 2018, 21 staff, board members, parent leaders, and partners gathered in Pasadena to kick off the second phase of our strategic planning process: Dream.

My Journey to Vitality
To write this blog, I had to be authentic and dig deep to a place where things fell apart so that I could share with you how living the Protective Factors and starting a journey to vitality are helping me put them back together.

Without Hitting, Yelling, Shaming, Intimidating: What’s a Parent To Do?
The American Academy of Pediatrics issued their strongest statement yet against spanking (which they defined as “noninjurious, openhanded hitting with the intention of modifying child behavior”) and also said to avoid non-physical punishment that is humiliating, scary, or threatening.
So, what’s a parent to do?

One Person’s Truth is Another Person’s Hate: Grappling with Anti-Semitism while Pursuing Liberty and Justice for All
In the wake of last weekend’s Pittsburgh massacre of elderly Jews at prayer in their synagogue, it’s not surprising to see a Be Strong Families blog about anti-Semitism. But we wrote this last week and what we said then is still true now. It’s just easier to surface.

Parent Engagement through the Lens of Equity
Weiss et al. highlight how family engagement is key to achieving equity for kids in schools, and offer examples of how engaging parents as co-creators, co-learners, community-builders and decision-makers creates the condition for equitable learning.

Living the Protective Factors
When most people think about the Protective Factors, they think of parenting or child welfare. Eight years after my introduction to them, I am finally beginning to think about the Protective Factors as a framework for a happy, fulfilled life.

My Forever Home
No one ever talks about successful foster homes. We always do the contrary. Today I want to share how critical and influential my forever home has been to my life. This home gave me hope and wisdom.

Parenting Advice Remix: Balancing the Experts with Experience
The headline that showed up in my Facebook feed was so enticing: “Parents of the Most Successful Kids Do These 5 Things Differently, According to Research.”
Lured by the clickbait, I opened the article in Inc. Magazine and learned that parents of successful kids do the following…

What Does Family Mean to You?
Family is one of Be Strong Families core values, beginning with respect for and appreciation of others no matter how old, how young, where they come from, what they’ve experienced, where they are, how capable they are, how healthy they are, who they love.